So the finest thing that a person could have in life, in a marriage, is to have a partner who will save them from being selfish; a partner who will do for them before they have to do for themselves. And the nicest thing you can do for someone else is the same. So I think about what I would do… and that’s bliss by the way. That’s a marriage. It never stops being beautiful. You’re insane for the person you love. You’d kill for them, there’s no question about it. Because the person gives you everything. I’m telling you, you can see it. Watch couples. I do. You can see it in the eyes whether it’s there or not. When it’s there, o my goodness gracious. I wouldn’t fight them with a Howitzer. When I see couples like that, if I had an army I wouldn’t go up against them. I’m afraid of the couples like that. I’m telling you why. Because it’s like blood.

It’s not like those people who degrade their spouse — "My Bessie. My wife…" Forget that stuff. That’s sick, That’s not happiness.

The person with true love would kill for his wife. He'd take a butter knife to do it if he had to. He would do anything for a person like that. Because that’s somebody who’s giving you the most precious thing in life.

So now when you want to think about a partner, and this is a story. I go round the world, I meet people all the time. That’s my business. I feel bad when people are stuck. And I see people give up the love of their life again and again. I’ve seen it so many times. They give up the love of their life. I’ve seen guys and girls give up the person who would have given them the most sweetest and most beautiful life, because that person didn’t look, or sound, or act like… and this is the worst part… forget about that they didn’t look, or sound, or act like what this person thought would be good. A lot of the time it’s that the person didn’t look, or sound, or act like what this person thought the people that they wanted to please thought