Way Number 9:
They think that marriage will solve their problems. Although it's definitely true that being single for too long is no fun, there are many singles who are unhappy for many reasons that have nothing to do with their personal status. However, because the issue that is most on their minds is getting married, they find it relatively easy - whether consciously or subconsciously - to blame their unhappiness on the fact that they are single. What ends up happening is that they convince themselves that marriage will solve all their problems. This is a fatal mistake. If you are unhappy and single, and your unhappiness is a result of problems and issues other than the fact that you are single, then chances are that you will be unhappy and married, too. Marriage does not fix personal, psychological and/or emotional problems. If anything, the give and take required in a relationship will only intensify them. If you are not happy with yourself or with your life (or both), then take control of the situation and fix it now while you are still single. You'll feel a whole lot better, and your future spouse will be eternally grateful.
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